Family Arguments About Food Can Be Destructive

Political interventions to combat obesity tend to focus on structural issues such as food deserts, time poverty, and insufficient junk-food labeling, but confronting how food makes us feel is just as important. Food can be joyful and comforting—but also a source of guilt and self-hatred. And because eating is often a shared activity, our consumption becomes interwoven with the dynamics of our families. If anyone understands why discussing our weight with our loved ones can be such a toxic brew of shame, resentment, and frustration, it’s the van Tullekens.

‘The Revelation Was That I Was the Problem’

A doctor nagged his twin brother to lose weight—but family arguments about food can be destructive… MORE

Source: Author, Helen Lewis. The Atlantic, August 2021.

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